That House in Your Heart , Called Mother !

                                                          Some things and some people are an ever present in your life , just like your surroundings and the love you have for them . But if you are lucky , there will always be that special person who you know that to rely on them is the easiest thing in the world . God they can be cutting , Christ almighty they can really do your head in . Always wanting you to be on time here , wanting you to eat your dinner there . They are consistently at you to make yourself look good , they tell you to zip your lip when they feel its the right time to . And most importantly , as I said if you're lucky , they will heal you when you are sick . They will brighten your day wth silly stories of their childhood , and they will love you passionately and completely . You of course will love them unsparingly in return .
                                                        If you are lucky , you will have memories of these occasions . If not you will have longed for them to have been yours . There is such sensitivity in the word Mother , that even if yours may not have been the best , you can only imagine what it should have been like . My thoughts will always be with those few who never experienced the tenderest of hugs and kisses that children need so desperately , as I would be one of those unfortunates . I don't say that with malice , I say it as a fact . And there are plenty of people I assume would be in the same boat as myself . You learn to accept that things are never going to be as you would want them to be , and you carry on .
                                                       So if you are one of the children who have grown a little older without the wise words and cuddly hugs that you used to get , and some sort of anniversary or remembrance of her birthday is currently or has just taken place , be positive . She would have liked you to miss her , but not for it to break your heart . You see the only part of her that's missing , is her human part . You can never take away the energy that she still generates in you , her children , and her grandchildren . That will never leave as long as memories can take and create that house in your heart that's called mother .