Everybody loves Honesty , Even if it Hurts !
Have you ever noticed how in some people , that the very reason they might be annoyed or upset with someone , isn't really the true reason in the first place ? Have you ever noticed while listening to someone either slagging someone off , or criticizing them , its practically never about the reason they just mentioned , and nearly always about the build up of stuff that has gone on before . The saying of the straw that broke the camels back comes to mind . And if you are on the receiving end of this outburst , sure you probably haven't a clue what sent that someone off like that in the first place . It just doesn't make any sense to you . You weren't even there when whatever happened , happened . So now you're in a dark place , none of your own making you are thinking