Everybody loves Honesty , Even if it Hurts !

                                                                   Have you ever noticed how in some people , that the very reason they might be annoyed or upset with someone , isn't really the true reason in the first place ? Have you ever noticed while listening to someone either slagging someone off , or criticizing them , its practically never about the reason they just mentioned , and nearly always about the build up of stuff that has gone on before . The saying of the straw that broke the camels back comes to mind .
                                                                  And if you are on the receiving end of this outburst , sure you probably haven't a clue what sent that someone off like that in the first place . It just doesn't make any sense to you . You weren't even there when whatever happened , happened .
                                                                  So now you're in a dark place , none of your own making you are thinking to yourself , and wondering how the hell you're going to prevent world war 3 from happening . You don't even know who is on your side , if anyone at all . People are looking at you strangely , as if you have two heads , and still nothing is registering in your head . How are you going to get out of this one , and save some face ? Jesus Christ , what the fu.. have I done ?
                                                                  You see this is the place you begin to reside in , when things are not spoken about and confronted . This is the state of mind you create when you are not willing to just sit down and talk things over . No , I'll just put whatever that is bothering me on the back burner , now is not the time to stir it up . Now is not the moment to confront someone who is clearly trying to relax after having a busy day . I'll leave it till tomorrow , yes tomorrow will be better .
                                                                  Does anybody out there recognize this person ? Does this sort of behaviour ring through with anyone ? Probably most of the people who are reading this can identify a little with what I am saying . Its just the way we are . Rather than be sometimes brutally honest with someone , when brutality is the only way to get them to sit up and recognize something is wrong , we tend to let things fester . We let things stew . And we all know in our heart of hearts , rather than making that problem easier , and more manageable , we always make it so much harder to dig ourselves out of the hole we have put ourselves in . As always it's totally self inflicted . I should have listened to myself previously when I was actually speaking and thinking some sense . Now look where I am . That molehill has just become that mountain .
                                                                 It's hard to be totally honest , we all know that . But it's worse when we convince ourselves that by ignoring something that it's going to go away of it's own accord . It never does . Those eggshells were not meant to be walked on . They were meant to be thrown in the bin where they should be . Trust your first response . Trust in yourself . Everybody loves honesty , even if it hurts !