The Fruits of Parenthood !

                                                          How we have grown , how we have become the people we are now , its a very strange transformation . What is it that moulds us into who we are ? Who are the people who have influenced us most ? And who do we despise for their lack of interest in who we would grow up to be ? Really searching questions , takes an awful lot digging into one's psyche if we are to be honest with ourselves . And most times the answers are not forthcoming , due to either being dishonest with ourselves or a lot of the time simply pleading ignorance . That ignorance could be also described as loss of memory at a very important time , seems appropriate !
                                                         Now we are at the pinnacle of our  growth , and we still cannot come to terms with the idea of what makes us and what breaks us . Its a lot easier if maybe there's no children involved , or maybe not . But with children and having children , there is so much distraction in having to tend them , that one tends to forget who they are and they simply lose themselves in parenthood . From experience , not a good thing !
                                                        While its extremely important being the best parent you can be , its also just as important to retain some semblance of the person you used to be . Relationships suffer , appearance can suffer , you just don't put aside time for  yourselves when time is the one resource we have very little of . Be aware of these things , embrace them , and then when the time comes and it will come , you can enjoy the fruits of your parenthood .
                    Christopher , Scott . Zoe , Jamie , Billy , Allanah , & Lily  My Beautiful Grandchildren !
No need to examine or analyze me , I am Well Beyond That !

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