Doing What's Right For You !

                                                   When someone you know quite well , who you do be in contact with practically every day , decides to withdraw into themselves and cannot be contacted in any shape or form , what's the right thing to do ? Do you just leave them to ponder whatever it is that's upsetting them , and hope everything turns out right ? I mean you don't want to appear as if you are bombarding them with calls or texts , no that would be just a bad idea . But you can't feel concerned without trying to do something , anything .

                                                  Its normal to be concerned when someone is behaving totally out of character . The things that are always usual are just not there lately . The reports on how one's day has been . The never ending jokes that pass across the telephone line , and the never insulting innuendo that has become par for the course . This is normality in everyone's world . This is the way it is , and to change that normality would be to alter an understanding that has been there

for a very long time . Its what makes people interesting , its what separates the maybe friends from the close one's .
                                                 You cannot help but worry , that something is just not what it seems , and there is no way of knowing or finding out without a confession that's never going to come . The best that one can do is  to let them know quite simply how available you are to them , anytime anywhere . They may not need your wise words or thoughts . They may never even speak of the change , but they'll know that it happened , and so will you . You will never remind them of this , because to do so would be a betrayal of the unspoken word . That simple word or phrase that never needs to be said , but is always there to remind yourself that someone cares . That someone is thinking about your well being . Sometimes that's all that's needed to soothe your worried mind .

                                                When you have a friendship like this , its hard not to worry about them . Its hard to pretend that everything is as it usually is . For better or for worse , they will wander around in abject misery until such time that the source of this misery is faced full frontal . They can ignore it if they like , only for it to raise its ugly head again , and then you're back to square one . We sometimes underestimate the power we have within ourselves , the strength that's needed to cope with every days ups and downs . That's the time to surprise everyone , and especially yourself , and do what's right for YOU  and only YOU !