What a Crock of Shit !

                                                        Is it ever safe to say that you know someone ? You will define certain people as friends , acquaintances , really best friends etc. You know who you can call upon in times of stress . Then there are those who you wouldn't trust the other half of your sandwich with , but they would still be in the outer circle of those you would describe as friends . But your really best friends are witness to your every emotional outburst , your ups and downs , and when you want to share some particularly good news they would be the first to know . And then.........................
                                                        You spend more time with them than you normally would , be it through a holiday shared , a week-end away , or something similar . You start out all joy and the happiness of life due to your being free of normal routine , and things are humming along .You go out to dinner , have a few drinks , do some shopping and generally have a good time .
                                                       Then something happens , and everything you have ever accepted as being a friendship never to be broken , is suddenly put under the proverbial microscope due to the other persons unfamiliar behaviour . You see things in a whole different light , things that might have been overlooked due to the closeness of that friendship ,
are suddenly becoming little hints and examples of who that person really is . You can't quite put your finger on it , but you just know something is just not right .
                                                      Jump a little forward in time , and you start to experience a cooling of attitudes ,a more distant exchange of information and chat . Then you ask the age old question , Are you ok ? Have I done something wrong , and the only response you get is I don't want to talk about it , I don't want to talk about it . Now your fears have been confirmed , there is something wrong . Yesterday everything was fine , you go out to lunch and return , and meet this person and inquire as to their well being , only to be waved away and completely ignored .
                                                     The time spent has come to an end , and you're on the way home ,and of course we all have to use the same transport to get us to the airport , and from the airport on arrival home . But this  person decides to alienate you , by standing at the other end of the airport , avoiding you at all costs . The car you originally went to the airport in is now a definite non starter for you , and so a taxi is taken home .
                                                    Throughout all of this drama , not a word of explanation has been said . No vocal contact has been made , and seemingly maybe the word of someone else has been more important than a friendship you enjoyed for some ten years . I still don't get it , and that is why I asked that question from the outset " Do you ever truly know someone" ?
                                                    Disgust is not a word I use easily , but on arrival home , you are defriended on social media , any friends who were introduced through you have also been defriended and all because they couldn't come to you and ask one simple question . Because as we all know , if you want the truth about something , go to the source of the misunderstanding . Ask them if what was heard was correct or incorrect , but please don't assume that if you are told something by somebody else that it is necessarily the truth . I am so disappointed , that someone would do that to somebody , but without clearance to explain , a presumption on someone else's interpretation of events has suddenly become the truth , the whole truth , and nothing but the truth . What a crock of Shit !

























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