A Place Deserving of it's Merits .

                                                                      Who is it that steals from us all of our plans and hopes for our future's ? What is it that cancels out all of our expectations and leaves us with nothing but plans that will never see the light of day ? How is it , that after careful preparation and forethought , the perfect application of a plan well thought out , will never actually work ?
                                                                      You know you must do your best . You know that nothing short of a miracle will appease the hungry spectators in their demands for all of your concentration and time . And yet you continue on regardless . You ignore all advice that certainly would be better for you than what you have decided upon . You are relentless . You are stubborn . Stupid is what you really are ! Pigheaded , stubborn and without hope . And yet , you continue !
                                                                      When someone pushes themselves beyond all rational levels , there will always be somebody else who will nevertheless suffer alongside them . And this someone will not have expected or wanted to venture in this direction , but because of their pure allegiance to the other person , they feel it their duty , they feel it their responsibility to go where it is both dangerous and not very practical , just to prove themselves worthy of the others consideration .
                                                                      You see this sort of mindless confidence in places of sheer danger and terror . You might see it in a hostile situation , where , unknowns to themselves , they could quite soon need to be able to rely on someone else just for their survival and their safety . Having to give yourself up to that sort of involvement in something , can be the ultimate test in your character . It could also be the ultimate flaw in your character , that leads you into a situation of having to depend on others just to keep you free from harm , or simply to make you happy .
                                                                     We have all at some stage in our lives encountered relationships so toxic , relationships so obviously destined for failure , that upon deeper investigation , those having to rely upon the other make it near impossible for anything to grow or thrive between them . Yet they continue . Yet these poor people pour their hearts out to friends , hoping to find some support , or hoping for some sort of explanation that until now , has eluded them .
                                                                    This piece is a simple generalization of how we , as grown adults can find our best efforts to be happy , dependent upon some else's actions or inactions. A particularly sad state of affairs , don't you think ? Yes I understand how the success of relationships and marriages are dependent on both people giving one hundred percent to each other .But an unnatural reliance , that is both dangerous and obsessive , will always be destined for the only place deserving of its merits . In the rubbish bin

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