Making Sense of Common Sense !

                                                             What is it about people , could be friends , family , or just acquaintances , that they think they have the right to expect things from you without even an agreement or an understanding of what they are asking you ? They sometimes even ignore the question , can this person handle this favour I am asking ? Will they have the time and effort to accept this thing being asked of them ? And explaining that maybe you can't , suddenly becomes a reason to be short , disrespectful and downright rude . These are the questions that sometimes need to be asked to get a better understanding of the how's and the why's .
                                                             Expectancy , you see that's the basic problem ! I expect therefore I should receive . Sorry but without a forethought , and some basic common sense that is not the way it is . And expecting someone to be at your beck and call no matter what the situation is plain selfish . Without a thought for the other person , and with such a rejected reaction a simple situation turns into a drama .
                                                            At my age the only drama I want to experience is either in the cinema or on television . I have had my fill of psychological drama , I have had my fill of being expected to do things , and I have had my fill of selfishness in people .
                                                            Some people feel the world revolves around them , and their expectancy . Wake up call , it doesn't ! When someone offers or declines a request , that should be the end of it . There should be no inquiry as to why not , or the demanding of an explanation . There should be nothing but acceptance and then just move on . There are always alternatives , but making someone feel guilty because they have declined your demand is just plain childish and just plain hurtful .
                                                           In conclusion , all that I have said is just plain common sense , but to some people common sense does not seemingly make sense at all !

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