Blaming Oneself Should never be an Option !

                                                 Its very difficult to talk and chat about things that worry you and sometimes haunt you . The difficulty is that the truth and being honest about yourself and others can be a very enlightening and liberating experience . Not always in a positive way , as others and yourself sometimes are not ready for such  information , with the capacity to turn your world upside down .
                                                The idea of safety , be it your own or your family's is always to the foreground of your mind , its simply a primitive thing that you never want its ugly head to rise in the name of protecting ones selves . But sometimes that ugly head has no choice , and its not always the best excuse to use it , but as I said sometimes you just have no other choice . We are born the way of all mankind , we love , we hate , we protect and we try our best to be happy . But whenever something happens to knock us out of our rhythm , that can be so intensely stressful and a happiness breaker . We have all suffered bouts of anxiety and distasteful occurrences that some of this blog may strike a chord , and if so I do apologize as that would never be my intention . But as I said earlier the truth sometimes is a very disturbing place to visit
                                                 Not everybody can handle the truth , and not everyone has the capacity of understanding and empathy . For a lot of people its simply black and white , yes or no , good or bad . The possibility of there being another way never crosses their mind , its their way or the highway . I always found in situations of confusion being on the same page as your partner is a must , its a prerequisite for some success . A second or even third opinion can be so very rewarding . There should never be a need for someone to feel they have to carry on alone .
                                                I don't know if any of this makes sense , but in essence what I'm trying to say is that being who you are and how you do things may not always be successful , but at least you'll have exhausted all the possibilities . Blaming oneself should never be an option !