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Losing Sight of the Objective !

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                                                                           Maybe I have lost sight in what the objective really was . Maybe I was fooled into believing that if something was said properly and evenly , that the majority of  people couldn't fail to understand exactly what I was saying . Or maybe because I was and still am a little outspoken at times , you tend to dismiss where the meaning comes from , and why .                                                                           You look at the ceiling while trying to go off to sleep and wonder , what if any , has the depth  of meaning th...

Everybody loves Honesty , Even if it Hurts !

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                                                                   Have you ever noticed how in some people , that the very reason they might be annoyed or upset with someone , isn't really the true reason in the first place ? Have you ever noticed while listening to someone either slagging someone off , or criticizing them , its practically never about the reason they just mentioned , and nearly always about the build up of stuff that has gone on before . The saying of the straw that broke the camels back comes to mind .                                                                   And if you are on the receiving end of this outburst , sure you probab...

An Unimportant Cog !

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                                                                        Wouldn't it be great if all of the things we entertain ourselves with , could be enough to put our collective minds at ease when it comes to the every day living of our lives ? Wouldn't it be just fine and dandy if we could all just go to sleep at night happy in the knowledge that everybody out there is being cared for , being looked after , being loved , without condition or malice ? These ideals should be the things we aspire to . These are the actions that need to happen , to maintain our existence in a world gone mental , where the only thing that's important is how high your eyebrows can be drawn .Or how thick you can appear to others without shame or remorse . These unimportant distractions are what keep the bulk of us entertained ....

Zadar , Croatia , A Little Piece of Heaven !

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                                                                    Its important to keep some things private don't you think ? I mean you can't be sharing every little thing you do in your life on social media or anywhere else for that matter . Some things you just have to keep to yourself and store them away in some secret little place that you call safety . Safe from prying eyes , safe from the criticism of friends and family , and safe for you to visit when you decide you want to . With that in mind let me share with you , and I know you won't tell anyone , a journey that promised so much , and delivered so much more .                                                         ...

An Adventure in Parenting !

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                                                                           I've been pretty quiet of late , and that was really a personal choice . Sometimes you just get tired having an opinion , especially when so many things surrounding that opinion can be misconstrued , or just suited to someone else's agenda .And these personal agenda's are not exactly healthy or good for you .                                                                           I try to be as honest as possible , just so that some things are not misunderstood . But as much as I try , a lot of things that should be easy to understand are co...

Learning to Re-Adapt ! An Obvious Solution !

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                                                                          Be warned , I have no idea where this is gonna go , and I don't even care . I have reached that time in my life where considering what is acceptable to others , doesn't really do it for me any more . You see those days of minding your p's and q's has long since left my understanding of how things should be . Something is either right or it is wrong . To be pursued , or ignored at all costs . I have considered those grey areas where nothing is ever decided , and ultimately are always put on hold , until such time as someone else deems it fit for general consumption .You have to protect others emotions don't you ? You have to forsake truth for some makey up version of it haven't you ? . These are the things and positions in life I am...

Jerome Silberman R.I.P You will be Sadly Missed !

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Willy Wonka !                                                                         Being a little bit of a movie buff , I was really saddened today when hearing of the passing of the comedic genius that was Gene Wilder . Born Jerome Silberman in 1933 , he died today having suffered from Alzheimer's for some years . With wife Gilda Radner                                                                          In 1967 I remember going to the cinema to see the movie Bonnie & Clyde with Warren Beatty , Faye Dunaway , Gene Hackman , and the very very new Gene Wilder . From get go you couldn't be anything but imp...