When it comes to taking responsibility for your own shit , it's generally accepted and a given that we at times,blame everyone but ourselves .And even if we just do it in jest , we are still deflecting responsibility for our own mistakes . I have sometimes been guilty of it , and to be honest I wasn't always as forthcoming with an apology if I fell into that little hole . And yes that's my own fault , or maybe it's just the way it is and therefore is an accepted part of our imperfect make up . And I don't know about you , but I'll give you a for instance . Have you ever when having a disagreement or an argument with your better half , ever said that after suddenly realizing you have just put your foot in it , and you have gone that little bit too far , I was only joking . What are you getting so annoyed about , you know I didn't mean what I said , in fa